I think I’ve touched on this before in my walls of text post, and it bears repeating, new year and all. So here it is, I’m going to help you guys choose the right Mistress and respectfully approach them. And while this is mainly femdom tips for sissies, this can be applied to any sub looking for a dominant. So yay let’s dive in!!!!!!!!!!!
Femdom Tips For Sissies
Choosing the right sissy mistress is essential for your experience to be an enjoyable one. Let me give you an example: You’re a sissy looking for a sensual sissy Mistress who enjoys nurturing sissies, dressing them up and making them all pretty, and then cuddling in your frilly frocks. You peruse the cock control and sissyville website, and lo and behold! You see a rare Mistress Brighton in the femdom wilderness. Omgosh! You think to yourself, she’s so adorable! She’s absolutely perfect for all my sissy fantasies! You very quickly and foolheartedly approach the fairy princess, you clear your throat to announce yourself.
To your horror she turns and faces you with glowing red eyes and fangs and snarls, “oh how delicious! Another victim…” The sound of your screams of terror can be heard all throughout the LDW 100 acre woods and you are never seen or heard from again. *snortlaugh* Okay so that was a tad dramatic, but I digress. This is simply a warning, that I am NOT a nurturing cuddly sissy Mistress. Like… AT ALL. I’m the mistress men call when they wanna walk funny for a week and savor the taste of sperm on their tonsils for the greater part of their existence.
Sissy Humiliation And Feminization
Do I like sissies? Yes! I like sissy humiliation even more. And if you call me for feminization, I will feminize you, fuck the ship out of you, humiliate you, whore you out, and laugh while I’m doing it. I am a sadist, and I have no interest in cuddling and mothering sissies. So if you’re looking for a nurturing sissy, and you call me, I’ll probably scar you for life. However if you’re into it, and you like being turned into a sissy fuck puppet, objectified and humiliated, and having a toilet brush shoved up your ass, I can do a lot for that!
How To Find Your Dream Sissy Domme
Really simple: RESEARCH! READ YOU FUCKERS! Read the profiles on sissyville before you dive head first into femdom hell that you may not enjoy. If you want someone who resonates with your needs, read not just the profiles but read blog entries. I blog about the calls I enjoy doing, most of the other Mistresses also blog about their favorite types of calls. I know you guys get these things called boners and you suddenly don’t want to read anything, you just want to get off. But when your sissy fantasy is involved, and your mental safety is involved, picking the wrong domme could lead to you having a good cry on someone’s couch if you’re not careful.
How To Approach Your Dream Sissy Femdom
With some fucking manners for starters. Wrong way to approach a Mistress: “Hi Mistress my name is trixie and I want you to be my mistress! I also want you to dress me in pink panties and put on pink lipstick and recite the star spangled banner daily on calls and I also want you to send me exactly 55 emails an hour and reply to all my 557 emails promptly every day at 7am, and then I also want you to tie me up with pink fuzzy handcuffs and make me suck exactly 22 cocks while you fuck my ass with a shimmering pink dildo, and it has to be specifically shade #E497D1 with a large mushroom head. And you are to make me wear pink panties and shoes every single day and tell me how pretty I look 5 times every 10 minutes.”
……………….. Okay so I can totally do the fuzzy handcuffs and pink strapon but the rest of that is gonna be a toss up. Can you see how this could possibly give a Domme anxiety before she even gets a chance to converse with you??????? Yes? No bueno.
Right way to approach a Mistress: “Hi Mistress, I hope this finds you well, I have read your blogs on cake recipes and how to get a broom handle up your ass when you have a virgin pussy. I specifically liked the part about yelling GERONIMOOOOOO! really loud as I pump my sissy ass for you. I also would like to know more about sissy dildo aerobics and how to ride a dick like those sissies on the cruise. I think that your interests definitely match mine and I would love to chat with you for a few minutes to see if we’ll be a good fit for each other for long term sessions.”
Why is the second approach better? Because you acknowledged that you actually read her blogs, and have similar interests in sissy humiliation and debauchery, and that you’re equally fucking as warped as I am. WINNING!!! If the Mistress agrees to chat with you, keep your emails short and sweet, unless you’ve been given permission to send longer more in depth emails. And ALWAYS ASK PERMISSION BEFORE SENDING A WALL OF TEXT. And let the Mistress know beforehand that you have some more in depth thoughts and make sure it’s okay to unload your sissy dreams and aspirations. If you’re ready to chat, find out what a good time will be for both of you. If she’s available, do a quick 10 minute introduction call and let her know who you are. Yes yes? Very good right? I think so.
Interested In Sissy Training With Mistress Brighton?
I mean…. if you’re up for a wild time and you’re feeling like a brave sissy fit to be plowed. We can discuss your sissy training! All you have to do is call me! Just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Brighton. You can also find me on discord and email me at brighton@enchantrixempire.com if you don’t see me on and you’re interested in having me corrupt you. Also just a reminder that you can buy email packages if you’re interested and also if phone privacy is tricky. You can pay for them on sexy texting. That’s all for now folks!
FUCK OFF!!!!
Mistress Brighton
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Ms. Brighton! What a fun post and very informative. I respect that you “put it out there” and come right out and say you will NOT cuddle or coddle feminization aficionados that your only interest with them is humiliation FUN!! Mad respect lady!
For those who DO approach you in the “Hi I’m wanting to be a sissy have fun and am so excited about playing with my fem side, that I get a bit OCD with my emails” You just send them TO ME, OR hey Even Ms. Daphne!
Daphne and I love ALL Of our sissy’s, humiliation or not!
I personally think when our sissy’s get all “sissy horny” they do get a bit verbose in emails, and that makes me smile! But with my firm and sensual hand, I will guide them, show them, teache them what pleases me.
I mean, perhaps their alone time to play doesn’t quite jive with mine! That’s OK, I’ll be more than HAPPY to set up an email exchange plan that works for US BOTH.
You rock Ms Brighton at what you do! Again, thank YOU for being forthright regarding what you expect and what pleases you.
Erikaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I will send all the nurture needing over caffeinated (lolz) sissies directly to you and Daphne! I have no problem referring you ladies because you are both amazing at what you do. ♥
Wow Ms Brighton, I must admit I am a tad broken Hearted, I could vision me feminized and cuddling with you for sure, but on the same token, I could see me being totally dommed and pegged by you to !! so its not a total loss lol !! it pays to be versatile huh !! love your posts !! xo
Oh I’ll cuddle your face…. with my ass. 😉
Damn, that sounds sexy as hell !! way more sexy then some cuddling !! You may be converting me over to your way of thing Ms B !! lol thanks for that rush !! xo
*pets you*
sorry meant your way of thinking lol !!
Even the sissies looking for nurturing can’t lose if they choose the Fairy Princess. They might not be able to walk the next day, but you can’t say you didn’t have a damn good time. You can also send the sissies my way, I am very good at breaking them.. in. 😉
The joy of LDW is that no matter what kind of sissy a sissy might happen to be, there’s a Mistress that will blow said sissies skirt up!
Sometimes you need a firm hand, and Brighton will deliver that (right to your rear end), and sometimes you need that nurturing vibe, and you know where to go for that.
I like to think that I fall somewhere in the middle: like a stern head teacher, who can see through your b*llsh*t, won’t take your excuses, and expects you to Do Better, but will still hand out candy and rewards when you’ve done your best.
…you still don’t get to actually orgasm yet, though. That ‘candy’ is just to placate you and help you hold out just a little longer, sissy.
“Hi Mistress, I hope this finds you well, I have read your blogs on cake recipes and how to get a broom handle up your ass when you have a virgin pussy. I specifically liked the part about yelling GERONIMOOOOOO! really loud as I pump my sissy ass for you. I also would like to know more about sissy dildo aerobics and how to ride a dick like those sissies on the cruise. I think that your interests definitely match mine and I would love to chat with you for a few minutes to see if we’ll be a good fit for each other for long term sessions.” 🙂
BWAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA I adore you tifffy.