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Virtual Gender Roles – What The Virtual World Provides For Transgender

virtual gender roles

Miss Brighton discusses virtual gender roles and why if you’re transgender you might want to explore virtual life! 1-800-601-6975

virtual gender rolesIf there are any of you who are confused as to why anyone would want to play a “game” like The Sims, or immerse themselves in a virtual world service like the one Enchantrix Empire is a part of, then maybe we need to have a little discussion on gender and virtual gender roles; those in the transgender community; those who like to cross dress; those who fantasize about being feminized or transformed. Or… men who like to dress up like women and fuck other men who are also dressed up like women (more on that later). The virtual world for those who are trans, is more than just a game. It’s a way to express themselves in a way that they may not be able to, in real life.

Virtual Gender Roles

This is about being transgender and being able to express yourself, as your gender that you identify with, and do so safely.  The virtual world is a wonderful place for those who are trans, to look and feel and “be” as they feel that they are. The virtual world also has a wonderfully accepting and welcoming LGBTQ community. For many people who identify as trans, it is not safe for them to come out, or ideal depending on their life situation. Virtual roleplaying and being able to give yourself a complete makeover, is very therapeutic for those who cannot afford surgery, or for many other reasons are unable to transition safely. Especially if you suffer from gender dysphoria. Not only that, but buying a mesh body, mesh hair, clothes and makeup, are much less expensive, and logistically feasible.

Virtual Gender Transitioning

Having an avatar that you can modify and transform, gives you – the user – the ability to see yourself as you want to be, and move around and interact with others. You may also do so without judgement and the ridicule of the less than understanding. I know some of you are struggling right now, to simply be who you are, and you might be afraid, but if I can offer you a small comfort that the virtual world can give, I am simply asking that you consider it if you’re able to. Now… I would also encourage transgender men as well as women, to explore the virtual world, regardless of what your gender is, and no matter what avatar you choose, there are other people in this virtual community just like you, who will never judge you no matter what you decide.

And even if you decide not to do the virtual pokey dance with me, just know that I accept you. It’s the reason I do what I do, because I want to help people, and I want to give people an outlet they may not otherwise have.

If you’re ready to explore virtual or just want to chat, just give me a call at 1-800-601-6975 and let’s talk about your needs, desires, and what kind of trouble we can get into together. See you soon!



Mistress Brighton

4 comments to Virtual Gender Roles – What The Virtual World Provides For Transgender

  • Goddess:

    Thank you very, very much for this post. As one who identifies and expresses them self as an effeminate sissy in my mind / actions and has experienced the ultimate bliss of both phone and virtual world sessions with you and other LDW mistresses, I can attest to the authenticity and accuracy of your post. Most times I believe you know me better than I know myself and turning myself completely over to your control (either on the phone, second life or both)is the most liberating and satisfying part of my life. You are both a mentor and sister to me and I can not be more appreciative for your understanding and guidance.



  • Oh, Ms. Brighton, you are SO right on with this!

    All the things you said are exactly so and I have found that sometimes just the shopping alone for the clothes of one’s imagination are enough to quiet some of the inner struggles. Being able to wear a sissy party dress, a tailored business suit, even a Star Trek costume (!) gives a sense of power so seldom found in most transfolk’s environments.

    And then there are many who never want anyone to know they are trans, finding our Virtual World a respite from the dysphoria, BEING the body, the person, the woman she knows she is… the person people in the real world just cannot get.

    I also need to echo the SUPPORT and, it isn’t even just “acceptance,” but EMBRACING of the LGBTQIA+ communities. Finding a place where you are actually part of the landscape and not an aberration is FREEING!

    Come fly with us, sweet transfolk!

  • Having an avatar you can modify is the perfect way for a sissy, CD, or trans person to do virtually what is so difficult to do in real life. There are many obstacles to transitioning, from societal pressures to medical and psychological concerns. In world it’s so much easier–and satisfying!

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