Miss Brighton talks Femdom Phone Sex and the difference between femdom and f*ndom. 1-800-601-6975
I’m writing this informative blog post today, for anyone who might be confused as to what femdom is. Many people call our service for femdom phone sex, but that’s not all we cater to. Some ladies do roleplay and vanilla scenes as well. However with that said, I have noticed a trend among those subs and men looking for femdom, who frequent the virtual world. And apparently quite a few virtual patrons have it in their minds that femdom, is the same thing as another type of domination. You know… that one that deals with your finances? And that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Femdom Phone Sex
So for those not in the know, what is a femdom? Femdom refers to female domination, and has a broad spectrum as far as definition goes. A femdom can defined as a dominant woman in a female led relationship. These women are sexually dominant, some may even be femdom switches, but they call the shots, and their partner submits to them. Can a femdom be a f*ndom? Yes, but a f*ndom does not necessarily have to be a femdom. Which begs the question – and I will make you beg – what is a f*ndom?
Femdom Vs. F*ndom
F*ndom essentially, is control or domination of your finances, with no promise or expectation of time or attention. Basically a f*ndomme can take control of your $ and for someone into that sort of thing, they enjoy someone controlling their $ and the humiliation of being controlled in that way while most often being completely ignored and denied. For some it can be seen as a form of femdom and they enjoy the fantasy of that type of control. It also revolves heavily around gifting and other implements that we do not condone here, therefore they will not be mentioned.
Femdom Relationships
What we offer at LDW, is femdom phone sex, and a D/s relationship where you do sessions with your Domme, mostly over the phone, but can be text or virtual world phone sex. It can be anything from roleplaying a scene, to being placed in chastity by your Mistress. There are times when a submissive may feel the desire to pamper his/her Mistress with gifts or virtual bouquets, but this is not something that is demanded or required. At LDW, the Enchantrix Mistresses want you to have fun, and to enjoy your experience. Therefore we would never put you in a situation – financially or otherwise – where you could not fulfill your expectations as a submissive or femdom slave. We want you to be safe so that we can continue to talk to you and enjoy you! And safety is key in a D/s relationship, no matter what your kink is. Again, this includes the aforementioned, and it is my responsiblity as a Mistress, to make sure that your wellbeing is respected and that you never have to compromise your safety. It is the reason I censored the word, because sadly for many, it leaves a bad taste in their mouths, and is the equivalent of a four letter word here, and no not the good kind of four letter word.
Again the purpose of this post is for clarification of what Enchantrix Empire offers, how we feel about your safety, and what you can expect from us. When you’re ready to take the plunge and explore Femdom, call 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Brighton!
Until Next Time…
FUCK OFF!!!
Mistress Brighton
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Ms Brighton,
Brilliant, brilliant! Love your words and how you addressed this issue with such sensitivity and so eloquently. I’ve encountered similar with folks thinking we offer F*ndom experiences. I’m like you. I’d much rather have a submissive around to play with time and time again! *tee hee* you get more milage from them that way! Safe, Sane , Consensual 🙂
Wonderful ! Very well said words and well written many think now a days that what its all about is the $ and that is what is something they must do to have that relationship.And sadly enough the real submissive fall prey to it and get hurt, and never truely learn a real femdom relationship..All of you are the best and wonderful and very amazing..Beautiful posting Mistress Brighton * cheers *
Dear Mistress Brighton,
I am so glad that you point this information out. I have come across sights for people looking for a Mistress, such as “Find A Mistress” or “Local Mistress” and almost all the Mistresses expect payment. I feel this is simply an abuse of the role of the Femdom. Would you agree with that Mistress?
I think if you are paying for a service – for instance like LDW where you pay to speak with a mistress – then I think one should expect to pay, yes. Or… if you are going to a dungeon where you must pay the Mistress for her time, in both these cases then yes you are paying for the Mistress’ time and attention. I mean you wouldn’t expect a Mistress to “domme” you, for free, would you?
Of course we have to pay for your service, you are professionals and very good at what you do. It’s hopefully fun for us to call and we get something out of it.
Nothing good is free, and Fuck Off. Yup it feels good to type fuck off. So if you deserve it fuck off.☺
Yes, spotty it DOES feel good to fuck off! And to say FUCK OFF! And to fuck! Off! Hahahahaha, but yes, if you are requiring a professional service of course you are paying for it. Like I said you’re getting the Mistress’ undivided attention and care, and hopefully both are enjoying the experience. 🙂
There’s a difference for paying for the use of a professionals time such as a Mistress who actively provides a service and therefore can be expected to paid for that and just allowing a person to dominate you financially by taking control of your finances which has major risks.
It can be very dangerous and it’s not safe for a multitude of reasons. It’s the reason why if the customers want to gift us we tell them they are welcome to do so but they have to do it via VB with dispatch or use our wishlists or a nice gift card, and it’s never something we demand. There are tasteful and safe ways to play out spoiling a mistress, if that’s what you’re into.
LDW is the best! Woo! Mistress Brighton I’d bend over for you any day! Love spoiling you too! I don’t mind gifting a little extra especially since I’m such a freak!!! Where else can you go and ask a woman to watch you cum on your own face?! Srsly! I’m a #loser #pillowhumper hahahaha 🙂 🙂 🙂 Thanks!
Great post!! once bills are paid I will call. I mentioned to Ms Ericka that I’ve been getting off 5 minutes into calls and she thinks chastity would be great way along with feminization to control my cock. Would you be interested in doing this? If so I’ll be your cream puff girl forever.