The kinkier the sex, the better, for a mistress who enjoys strapon play. But that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy some good old fashioned penis and vagina sex. It just means that there are other things that get me wet and make me cum, and cum hard. Strapon play is high on that list, as I can tell you that from the very first time I wore a strapon dildo harness, to the very last, it still makes my pussy tingle with delight when I’m bending you over.
Why Strapon Play Is Orgasmic
It is my personal experience that strapon play is not just for humiliation. For me and my partner, it can be an erotic, orgasmic experience that gets us both off. I cannot even fully express to you how many times I had my lover on his back, his legs over my shoulders as I hammered into his ass, and how hard I would cum just from seeing the look of pure bliss on his face while he begged me to fuck him harder. It’s one of many reasons that I am so overjoyed that my partner shared his strapon fantasies with me.
The Insatiable Cock Jockey
When I say cock jockey, I mean me – the mistress – likes to saddle up, and ride… ride… RIDE, that ass. Fucking a submissive and willing man with a dildo not only gives me a sense of empowerment, but it’s just the fact that I can make him moan, squeal, whimper, scream my name backwards, and beg for more. That rush, hearing him call out my name over and over and knowing I’m giving him pleasure, is the greatest feeling in the world for me.
Safety With Strapon Play
As with all things, safety is immensely important, during strapon play, and if your partner has never been penetrated with any sort of toy, you should first, train that ass. If you’re preparing for your first strapon experience please remember that preparation means mind, body, and spirit. You should be mentally prepared for your mistress cock jockey, as well as physically prepared for her to take you. And I can’t stress this enough: Use lube. Never ever do anything you’re not comfortable with – use lube- or that your mistress isn’t comfortable with. And most importantly: Use lube. Once you get all the technicalities out of the way, though, lay back, relax, and enjoy the ride! I think Little Red Corvette would be a fitting song for a strapon and a strapee, no? Would you like to talk with me about your strapon fantasies? I’d love to hear from you at 1-800-601-6975. That’s all for now!
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I’ve never done this before as I think it would really hurt. If you did this to me would you have me dressed as a girl?
I would never hurt you Petey cream puff, I would just tease you a little. 😛
Mistress I often wanted to try anal/prostate play but don’t know where to begin or what to use… Do you recommend a butt plug that I would insert and keep in for awhile or what?
I hear aneros is good but I personally have never tried them. Whatever you get, I would suggest starting with something small until you adjust and work your way up. 🙂
Oh wow. I think we are sisters from another mister, Ms Brighton! Nothing more exciting then having him flat on his back, and yes! That sense of power is awesome. This post was as if you were reading my mind, so of course I love it and think you are just amazing, sexy girl!
Thank you Meredith! I am very happy to see I’m not the only one who enjoys that rush of power from using a strapon. And yes I am inside your head, hee hee. 😀
Okay Brighton now my mind is wandering to thoughts of you all strapped up and riding some stallion…must say my pussy’s tingling. But, I digress. This post got me all excited for other reasons. I think, I too, am a cock jockey! I also love that sense of power that comes with a cock dangling between my legs and wielding with wild abandon to make some sexy bottom boy beg!
*fan self* Whoo! Well Ms Rayne now I have the vision of you banging away wearing nothing but your strapon and now I’m excited too! It is a great feeling turning a man into my little slutty bottom. 🙂
Oh Ms Brighton, a Mistress wielding a large strapon is central to some of my favorite fantasies. In my opinion submitting to a good pounding is the ultimate sign of surrender and one I would gladly submit to…. It could lead to other yummy fantasy threads as well, enough to make my head spin 🙂
Surrender is one of my favorite words, braboi. You know why? Because it embodies a specific feeling of letting yourself go and completely handing over the reigns to your mistress. And strapon play can be the ultimate gateway drug, for a sub. 😉
“Strapon play is only for humiliation.”
Who said this? Give them to me. I will redden their buttocks. When done right, I believe just about anything can be a sensually charged and highly erotic experience. Especially when you take it slow at first and ramp up the passion play. And use lots and lots of luuuuuuuuuuuuuuube. He’ll be begging to be your anal slut in no time.
Mmmm Alexis I do love when they beg. My nipples get hard when you talk about reddening buttocks, also… but yes I agree that strapon play is and can be sensual and erotic. *purrs*
I’m curious… when penetrating your subbie, is there any difference in your enjoyment level if your sub is being physically retrained or if he isn’t?
For me, as long as the sub is into it and enjoying what I’m doing to them, then it is a turn on for me. So if they are into bondage and being schpoinked with a strapon while rendered immobile, then absolutely!
and a strapon wont get soft or cum in 2 minutes like a cock lol
No it will not! 😉
not that i finish that fast
Mistress i would love to have you be my cock jockey
I’ll ride you hard, teddy!